Adding to this I do have a VAG-Com cable for the later can versions which seems to work with VAG-com so this may be promising. Software wise I'm researching now :)
My Galetto cable doesn't seem to work the software sees my cable and tries to read the ECU but it crashes. I have ordered an MPPS cable. See if that works. Nefmoto doesn't seem to read the ECU either maybe because it's ME9, the searching continues.